Wednesday, October 5, 2016


Living with a Liar!

After 10 years,  he wrote to her, it read I need to share a truth. She pondered whether to respond or to give an excuse that she had never seen his mail. Having known the reason for his mail already, she replied out of curiosity, just to figure whether something new was coming from him. Her mail back to him read, yes would be keen to know the truth, but your mail wasn't a surprise, it was awaited.

He replied saying, he wanted to meet her and she said let's talk over the phone. The date was fixed and he called her. The conversation began, he told her, he was married and had a baby girl named Rachael, her rude voice said, I know it. She asked him what was the truth, her husband disclosed the bitter truth, he had never loved her. The strong girl asked, in her faint voice then why did you lie to me....he had no answer. He had lied about his faith, educational proficiency and most of all about his feelings for her. All he wanted to prove to his parents and relatives was he could fetch a potential and qualified suitor for himself despite his incompetence.

After their wedlock, he struggled to be what he wasn't, but failed miserably to keep up with the lie. To prove his educational ken he couldn't spell the difference between "piece n peace", to prove his faith, the sound of God's word only rocked him to sleep, every Sunday. There was no tolerance in his  claim of love, neither a bit of care for her "Single child syndrome". He hated her more every day and the sight of her was a stress since he had to toil to outsmart his lies to her, everytime.  He struggled to sustain the marriage and the only thing that bound them was sex and his incapability of financial  dominance.

She was disturbed by his inability to support their marriage financially as he had promised, thus he had to put up with her  additional tantrums of frustrations too. When the girl got pregnant, his chance for sexual pleasures faded, he started seeking love out of marriage. Even after  the first trimester,  the girl apprehended the idea of intercourse during pregnancy, which slowly weakened his marital bond towards her.

His new found job in Dubai offered him all the money he wanted to lure new women. He also wanted to prove to her that he was capable, efficient and prudent enough of what he claimed, so he made her come to Dubai with their newborn child. He had no physical attraction towards her postnatal body, which was striving hard to recover from its postpartum trauma. To sum up, he cared a shit about her emotions, health or motherhood.

Soon after she and their baby boy landed in Dubai, he had to share the load,  of new parenthood, while his motives were just to prove his point and enjoy the monetary benefits his new found job, with other chicks at Dubai. He hated the idea of bringing her to Dubai and spent the sleepless nights of baby sitting as hell. 

Now he had the money and abundant ways to  enjoy the whoredom in Dubai, but no freedom because of her presence there. He made numerous friends in Dubai, who believed his fake identity as truth. He spoilt her name with his friends and took every minor tiff between them as massive catastrophes to his office door and called over his friends to resolve it for him,  to gain their sympathy over his sinking marriage and so-made-stinker wife. They too , believed his tale of bubbles as truth and began to detest her. In the web of lies, they were also innocent victims who played powerful characters for the marriage to rift apart. 

His parents and sister were powerful catalysts,  to fuel the lies of "the heartless liar". He planned to leave her back with her baby in India and grab his freedom, without her consent. After their visit to India, he never intended to take her back.  She went back in person and begged him without the complete comprehension of  his plan, in a useless attempt.

Unknowing what was happening the poor girl cried, knocked every door, even God remained calm. God stayed glum, cause He knew the complete picture well. Her final attempt was to drag it to the court for justice, with a translucent insight about the entire happening. She thought,  breaking a family was not God's plan, she held to it tight. She did her best to save the marriage and he made the best of the freedom, drank the pleasures of every opportunity.

The more she resisted the gap widened and she went on her knees to him, his cold heart enjoyed it all the more. The child of theirs was a distant memory to him. Finally, to get rid of her, he filed a divorce, to continue his life with any other woman, who will fall for his lies again. The begging girl lost her cool and blew his job in Dubai, thinking, at least, financial dearth would bring him back to her. She prayed, so did her parents and their little son went to God in tears for his father, but God knew his father's stone heart was not worth his work. All we could see was the man's pleasant countenance,  his deceptive words and the reproach of a broken marriage, but God unearths every wicked heart. 

He came to India in rage and married another poor victim, who believed his lying trail, but God never wrestled with him this time, to stop, that was the beauty. He begot a baby girl as an illegitimate child through this new victim. It was 8 years now and his wife exhumed the truth about his new marriage. Fear fell on the man on legal grounds, he had a divorce case pending and there he was with a new illegitimate wife and child. 

Thus, he wrote to her............wanting to disclose the truth. Again with the intent, to get rid of her. By now, the girl knew it all, but this time she never wanted him. Since, she also understood God was chasing him hard for vengeance, any penance she could repay for his treason would be too small. She looked for all measures, to get him to support their son monetary-wise and the moment she got that from him, she winded their saga together. She never wanted even his shadows to fall on her, her baby nor her family. She enjoyed and felt God's deliverance to the fullest when her marriage broke. She is a free individual now, well acquainted with the only truth-Christ, in this world of lies.


God has indeed rolled  away her reproach, now it's God's turn to take on for the fatherless and the outcast.God has proved his faithfulness to deliver the poor from the hands of the treacherous and ungodly pagan family, despite their naiveness to deceitful schemes.